The First Day of the Rest of Our Lives!

I love the week-ends! They are so peaceful and quiet here on our 5 acres! We are so blessed to live in the country rather than the City. I am beginning to get back in shape in my walking and this morning I am not dragging after walking. It has taken a month to recoup from thinking I was getting exercise on that indoor bike, but that is OK. My stress level is really going down and I am grateful for that!

The last 2 weeks were not the most pleasant and were rather difficult and then very I was busy rewriting our Wills and I pray to God that this is the last time we have to do this. For us we no longer have any living children as they are all in Heaven with God. So it is just Clay and I. We are so blessed to have been together 25 years and that we are still here working on 26. The last 7 years have been so difficult and hard to experience, but I truly believe that now life will begin to provide us laughter and peace each day.

The week of the 27th of September was difficult with the Memorial Service for Melissa and this week was just a lot of work with the Wills. We signed up for monthly donations to the Jones Academy a Choctaw boarding school for underprivileged children. They provide support from K through 12th grade for all Native American underprivileged children.

They have 4 wonderful programs to donate to and we picked the Choctaw Pony Project. This project has 8 horses that are direct descendants from the horses that traveled on the Trail of Tears in 1830. The other one is the Evening Enrichment Programing where they use the donations to take the kids to movies, County Fairs, and support their FHA projects. All in all they provide a loving environment, opportunities to learn social skills, and receive their education. The hold the future for all Native Americans, which Clay and I call ”the forgotten ones”.

Additionally, the Choctaw Nation matches all donations which is wonderful. We did 3 memorials for our children who have passed, to the Scholarship Fund. Jones will be the benefactor from our Estate when we pass.

Yesterday seemed to be a day of laughter and fun – even while working on the 2nd review and corrections of the Wills. Things just fell into place for us and that in itself has not happened in a VERY long time. I finished the Will work, we are set up for Fort Sam Cemetary to be our final resting place, and Clay will be receiving some benefits from the Choctaw Tribe that we were unaware of. All in all, by 6:30PM I was finished forever with my work.

Today is a day to just enjoy breathing! I will be working on the borders for A Bountiful Life – Yes I know, I have been saying that for months, but it will happen today. After I get the top and bottom borders on I will begin to cut out the leaves and flowers for applique. There has not bee a lot of button sewing for the Dresden quilt but I am seeing some starting tonight!

During the last couple of weeks I have been looking at Boos and Bats quilt pattern with The Fat Quarter Shop. I have to blame Laura for getting this one going (hopefully next week). I fell in love with it and the fabrics that they used. They used Sleepy Hollow by Andover and Holiday Collections – Halloween and I was the weak one on this and purchased a lot of each piece. I was surprised that Amazon carried the fabrics along with FQS. Here is a sample of the fabrics and they are so lucious. (I could not get the photo below to reduce – sorry)

Next I purchased some great embroider fabric from WebFabrics. It is a Michael Miller Cotton Coutour fabric.

Next temptation was an email from Quiltmania showcasing Dawn Heese. Around 2014, Jaydee sent me a picture of a quilt that she had made and I fell in love with it, but never got around to it. So when I saw the picture of the quilt with Dawn and the fact that she was had the pattern in her new book, I purchased it from Quiltmania. I absolutely love those bunnies!!!! The pattern is called In the Garden!!!

Here is a picture of Jaydee’s quilt before she had sewn it together. I need to get her to send me a picture of the finished quilt. She is quite the appliquer!

So as you can see, life begins anew today and I am want to get back on the Quilt Train and away from negative thoughts even though the world around us is falling apart, we are not going to participate.

One of the things I did when all the work was finished was to call and make reservations for the Choctaw Casino for next month. There are so many places to visit in the area so this trip will be a much needed getaway! We are ready to see new places and visit old places. ME – I am ready to turn off the world with Casino noise! Since I am limited to eggs and potatoes maybe I will lose a few pounds!

Have a blessed weekend and happy quilting!

Hugs, Nanette

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18 Replies to “The First Day of the Rest of Our Lives!”

  1. I love those carrots 🥕 on that quilt! You will have to get sewing on that Halloween quilt, so you can have it on the table in a couple of weeks. 🎃 I am working on my list…


  2. You’ve been busy with lots of emotional things on your plate. great you’ll be getting away. I hadn’t noticed the carrots until I read Kathy’s post….yup they are adorable and I love the hare’s too 🙂


  3. What a great post! Loved hearing the enthusiasm in your words. Now I am going down that rabbit hole…yes, love that rabbit quilt! to look for it and the Michael Miller couture fabric. I always need fabric you can embroider on. Thanks for the happy enabling this morning, Nanette.

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    1. Sorry about my late response Jocelyn, you will really like the Michael Miller Fabric. I have been dealing with Carly at since 2003. I am happy to send you down the hole and start a new Squirrel! Laura got me going on the Halloween quilt! Have a great day! Hugs


  4. Sorry me again. I forgot to say how touched I felt as I read your bequeaths…so very sweet, thoughtful and generous of you to think of the children.

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    1. Looking forward to being glued to the poker machine! LOL. It is the Choctaw Jones Academy where they take in and board the under privileged Native American children – K thru 12th grade in Oklahoma. There are 4 programs to donate to and we will be visiting them next month! Have a great day! Hugs


  5. Your donations will be so needed and useful. I need to work on my will. I have one hand written somewhere, but I think it should be updated at least once a decade! Keep walking and enjoying those time out vacations.

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    1. OH Susan so sorry I am late! I have just finished Wills and our Funerals and beginning to feel the weight of THINGS TO DO. Tomorrow I get the RF treatment in my back and it is time. Hope you are getting your strength back. Think of you often. Hugs


  6. I am sorry for the difficult days…I’m not sure there are words enough. I can’t imagine. So good that you are finding happiness and peace! I love those Halloween fabrics, esp the lattice one, the moons, the white calico…. Oh gosh! Fall fabrics are the best! Treat yourself to some me-time, sew away and enjoy breathing! {{{hugs}}}


    1. Sorry I am late in responding. Words do help with those days now in the background. Last week was a little stressful, but since Saturday things have really become peaceful and quiet.

      I am hoping to start on the Halloween quilt by Thursday or Friday. Tomorrow is the Radio Frequency treatment on my back. It kills the nerves from the waist down for 6 months. Allows me to not get as tired and kills the pain! Lucky it works for me.

      Check out my latest post – they give an update! Hugs back! And my breathing is doing great – no hyperventilating anymore since the stress has left us.


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